The following
is the speech that was made at my Grandfather's funeral by my uncle John O'Donovan. I am posting it in honor of my
Grandfather who passed away on the 27 of July 2002.
"When we go home,
Tell them of us and say,
For your tomorrow,
We gave our today."
Good morning everybody,
On behalf of
my family i would like to thank you all for joining us in mourning
Jim's death and celebrating his life. In particular i would like to
thank my father's old comrades and friends from the Royal British
Legion who lent so much to last night's removal and this morning's
ceremonies.
Events and
fate shape a man's life and how he deals with life's difficulties and
crises defines the man. It is worth for a few moments to reflect on
my father's life so the young may realise how fortunate they are and
maybe appreciate the sacrifices a previous generation made to ensure
the freedom and comfort they enjoy today. It may also rekindle
memories of shared experiences for his friends and contemporaries.
Like most
O'Donovans my father's family came from West Cork, his grandfather
sold a farm and moved to the city where he bought a haulage business
which prospered for a good number of years until a weakness for the
demon drink brought it to its knees.
My
Grandfather moved to Liverpool where my father was born in 1919. He
has an older brother, Jack, who lives in Ellesmere Port, Cheshire,
whose health did not permit him to travel over for the ceremonies,
and a sister, Lucy, who died some years ago.
The family
returned to Cork when my father was one. When he was three his mother
died, when he was eleven his father died. He and his siblings were
separated and sent to live with relatives who didn't really want them
and from then on he really had to learn to fend for himself.
Aged 16, he
went back to England on his own, probably without any money, to find
work. He did and worked at various things until in early 1939, aged
19, he was called up to serve in the British Army. He was enlisted in
the 1st Battalion, South Staffordshire Regiment. His first posting
was to North Africa in 1940 to confront the Italian Army in Libya and
was part of the famous victory when 30,000 British under General
Richard O'Connor defeated a much larger Italian force before Rommel
arrived on the scene to upset the applecart for a while. His brother
also served in North Africa and was in Tobruk during the siege of
that city.
From North
Africa my father's regiment was sent to Greece, and when the Germans
overran the country he was evacuated off a beach in Crete to The
Kelly, which was Lord Mountbatten's flagship. He then survived the
sinking of The Kelly after it was attacked and sunk by Stuka dive
bombers.
From there it
was a case of out of the frying pan into the fire. His regiment was
sent to the Far East to counter the Japanese threat in late 1943 and
he became part of an elite British Force, nicknamed the Chindits, who
were dropped behind enemy lines of communication. The forerunners of
today's Special Forces, they experienced severe hardship, fending for
themselves and living off what they could scavenge for months on end.
They were named after the Chinthe, a mythical Burmese beast that was
half-lion and half-eagle.
My father was
always reluctant to talk about the war but one thing he did say
always stuck in my mind. Close to starvation, and living on nerves
and wits in the Burma Jungle, he made a promise to himself that if he
ever got out alive he would never go hungry again. He kept that
promise and come what may he always provided for his wife and family.
He cherished his Burma star above all his war medals and was one of
only a handful of Irishmen to earn one. He later served in India and
Palestine before being demobbed in late 1945.
He worked in
Fords in Leamington Spa for three years after the war before
returning to Ireland to join the Eagle Printing Company where he saw
out his working life until the company closed in 1981.
My father was
an outstanding footballer, capable of playing at the highest level
had the war not intervened. He played for his Corps on many occasions
and had the distinction of playing for the Army against the Royal Air
force in Wembley. In these days of pampered and extravagantly paid
footballers it is worth noting that he walked into Wembley for that
match with his boots wrapped in newspaper.
He had a
superb left foot which regrettably skipped my generation but
thankfully has been passed onto his grandson Alex and his two
great-grandsons Alan and Gavin."
By John
O'Donovan
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